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I even went to his wedding years later. Ironically, I made several good male friends in my quest for true love! As for people who didn't work out at all, there was an arrogant and self-absorbed Kiwi who went on about his ex, was dismissive about my job in package design, and attempted to psychoanalyse me based on my dating experiences.
The report continues: "By suggesting that compatibility can be established from a relatively small bank of trait-based information about a person--whether by a matchmaker's algorithm or by the user's own glance at a profile-- online dating sites may be supporting an ideology of compatibility that decades of scientific research suggests is false. "
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And I mean, I understand the entire tone policing thing is not exactly appreciated and my aim isn't to address it if the tone makes your points less legitimate (although I don't agree with all of them nonetheless). I only point it out because it seems to me there is more going on under the surface than just this specific conversation. It looks like something bigger has happened to cause you pain and anger and you've chosen to focus all that frustration and energy on something smaller such as this. And if not, that's at least how it's coming across.
This makes me kind of sad, because I like to believe I'm going all of this, and yet my numbers are more like 1 response for every 20 messages, and only 1 of those has contributed to scheduling a date -- for which I was stood up.
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The best compliment I got recently was when my gf told me that many of her friends are so fed up with young guys and think I'm so cool that they raised their era way up in the dating aps. If you are a cool interesting man who knows how to speak with people, you'll be successful.
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Going a step beyond Facebook searching and dipping your toes into the murky world of cyberstalking could be a necessary step if Facebook fails you. Very few men and women don't have an online identity. If his name is John Doe and he's an architect in London for example - typing the words "John Doe, Architect, London" will very likely pull up a LinkedIn or Twitter profile. If the information is publically available, then you can use it to swiftly verify that the person is real, using only details that they're already openly sharing. Just don't go digging for details they're not making public -- that is not cool.
When women see you know what you would like and are actively filtering girls outside, they'll view you as a high-value guy. The women you meet online will start to work for your attention because they know that in order to keep you interested -- a woman has got to be special.
Have you ever flipped through someones pics, thought they looked really great, met up with them, and then couldn't believe how their body seemed? How did that happen? How did I wind up on a date with somebody whose butt was the size of a pregnant rhinoceros?
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My point is that this isn't a good comparison because if (Some) men feel dominated by women in the dating world in a patriarchal society, the balance of power is still with them in virtually every other aspect of life. Having someone date you isn't a legal right, and should not be equalized. Also, you're severely overgeneralizing by saying that all women have the power in social interactions. Women might get more messages on OK Cupid, but that doesn't follow that they always have the upper hand in social situations.
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The whole truth is that ambition and drive are characteristics that don't often lead to attraction. I don't just say that because I'm a girl. Those very same qualities in a person might mean he's likely to workaholism or maintaining relationships at a safe distance. Not exactly sexy.
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